Be careful you don't rebound!!

[Gardener]

My plan to avoid a Rebound, which I've repeated ad nauseam on my and others' threads (and just today to LolaL), above

consists of something I read or heard once: go through one cycle, one year: one Valentine's Day, one Birthday, one Anniversary, One Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Year's and so on alone. No Relationships. Although my X abandoned our home 16 months ago and told me she wanted a D in May, ...and I've already been alone for well over a year now, I've decided that my One Year No Rebound Plan began on D Day, 2/09/10.