I swear OW has some kind of radar... just when I make a little progress she pulls something. After three months of no contact, now she sends my H an email. Subject line is the name of the award she is winning. He did not open it, deleted right away. We are assuming she wants to make sure he knows she is getting the award.

For the most part, I am not letting it get to me. I cannot let her continue to have power over me and my emotions. I am glad H told me and I made sure he knew that. I am glad H is honest that he was curious but knows it is best not only for our M and me but even for him if he does not open it.

But, it still sucks. And, it did bring some of the anger back full force for a bit. I think I am talking myself through it ok.... grrrrrr.... just wish she would go away and leave us alone to heal and move on.