How to approach W about OM

[OfficerInNeed]

From what I was told by a few different sources, my wife was her typical self at work and during lunch time one day while in the break room her co-workers were engaged in a conversation about "spousal abuse" and OM provided examples of how he has dealt with different levels of abuse from his father toward him and his mother. My W fed up with the way I treated her back then was seeking advice on how she should handle her situation and from there it just grew. What started out as advice turned into something more. This had gone on since the last week of January of this year. That is when people said they noticed a change in her and the phone calls had started.

The background check was done by the government. I did run him through the system at work but no criminal record.