:-) makes it seem sooo simple but gives hope that it really is that simple. I think that STEP 1 is the hardest for any person to admit to WILLINGLY doing damage to their family.
Well, mb28's H was halfway there in the latest phone call
He ALMOST admitted his affair...
He IS admitting he's hurting her, but he NEEDS to be specific... he cannot be a husband OR a father if he can't be HONEST with his wife about what he's doing...
He's afraid to admit to her specifically HOW he is hurting her and he's afraid to say it even to himself I think...
I think he really hates himself right now...
he also needs to admit he violated someone else's home.
MB28, does OW have children?
Did your H actaully attack a full family and try to break them apart or was it just OW and her husband?
Not that attacking a couple's relationship in secret is in any way OK, but its less hurtful than say attacking a family of five or six young infants...
