Heard back from one of W's family members (JJ)... it's amazing the skewed view W and her hangers-on have of the sitch...W is seemingly w/o fault and an absolute angel...lol.
It was nice to have a conversation w/ someone who seemed to care and look at both sides w/o judging...I feel somewhat validated.
JJ also was disgusted at W's actions towards my parents and couldnt believe that W would continue to not own up and be more communicative w/ them. And claimed that MIL's position is not shared by her, and is rather typical of MIL...apparently MIL did not purse C w/ her XH, and doesn not believe in C all together.
JJ assured me she is concerned for W, that W seems to be more into night life and parties, acting more like she's 18-20...her thoughts on OM2 were equally as disapproving.
JJ has not read DR or DB, but she told me W is cake eating and needs to experience loss...be reminded of what she's missing...she has to hit a bottom.
There are no guarantees...I guess that's the key part for me to understand.
GALd by playing golf today, NC w/ W...did not bother mentioning anything about the dogs again.