I've never had a pedicure.. that would be weird. although I'll do a french-mani on my toes myself...
Luv, so is this hotel thing with just you? I can't remember who is going to this.
hey, and quit trying to ruin the good things that happen. like when he came home early, but then you ruin it by saying he probably did that because he's going to be home late tomorrow.
take the good for what it is... GOOD, otherwise you will continue to keep yourself in negativity. besides, imho, it doesn't matter if it happened because of something else. they still chose to do a better thing so we encourage the better behavior. As we encourage the good choices, and make healthy boundaries and healthy consequences for the bad ones, the more good choices they will eventually chose to do.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
take the good for what it is... GOOD, otherwise you will continue to keep yourself in negativity. besides, imho, it doesn't matter if it happened because of something else. they still chose to do a better thing so we encourage the better behavior. As we encourage the good choices, and make healthy boundaries and healthy consequences for the bad ones, the more good choices they will eventually chose to do.
preach it ST...
oh and like my son says "bee tee dubs" (btw) I'll be alone in hotel
M44 H41 M20 T23 3 older teens Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy" EA Nov 09 w/coworker Another PA in Mar 10 I Filed Apr 10 D final Dec 10
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
I'm just peeking in for a little update. H actually came home on time yesterday. Our D asked him to take her to a friends house (I had no intention of going along) and H implied "we'd all go." I went.
We dropped her off he said, "you wanna go to restaurant?" I really didn't want to but said, "ok." We sat at the bar and had some drinks and appetizers.
He talked about work yet again and I listened. He also talked about the kids how he text them almost everyday when he was gone and they ignored him. I said, "well you are the parent - they are upset with you and you have to be the bigger person."
H also talked about moving out of state and how he got a job offer. He implied "we could live in washington" etc. He was talking about the future but I didn't read into it at all. He was fairly polite last night and unbelievably wasn't on that damn blackberry!
This morning (my bday) he hasn't said one word to me and we've been up for over an hour. Oh well I guess I can't let him ruin my day right?
I'm going to breakfast with my family. Then I'm off to spend some quality ME time.
Luv you guys...thank you for your support!
M44 H41 M20 T23 3 older teens Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy" EA Nov 09 w/coworker Another PA in Mar 10 I Filed Apr 10 D final Dec 10
I'm a little hungded over today but I'm ok. I had a good time escaping my reality yesterday.
I just left and H didn't know I was going anywhere. I text him late and said, "see you tomorrow" and he responded right away with "what is the deal..where r u?" I didn't answer.
I came home and he went to a meeting so I haven't seen him yet.
M44 H41 M20 T23 3 older teens Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy" EA Nov 09 w/coworker Another PA in Mar 10 I Filed Apr 10 D final Dec 10
