1. STOP doing damage 2. Do the things on the list to heal the past hurts
And keep that work up for the rest of your lives and you will be fine.
:-) makes it seem sooo simple but gives hope that it really is that simple. I think that STEP 1 is the hardest for any person to admit to WILLINGLY doing damage to their family.
Me: 28 H: 32 1st marriage 4 both 1 1/2 year married 2gether for 9 1S: 6months 1stepson: 2yo