I think I'd rather be dead than this- WAW

[crushed_v95]

I think posting photos and otherwise indulging in sour grapes will be contrary to the long term goals you might have. It looks needy, petty and small. You're bigger and better than this sort of thing.

Listen: You obviously still love her. Why don't you look at the big picture?

Consider what will happen when this affair of hers tanks (it will - sooner than you think) and she's alone. What's she going to do?

If you can hack putting all this animosity and anger on the back burner for a little while, I'm guessing she'll be back in your arms when jerk-boy wanders off to wreck another family.

I imagine his pic is pretty ludicrous and unflattering, right? People who are good looking/successful/strong don't slink around in the shadows and boink on married women. They get their own women (or men if they're chicks or gay dudes). The people who cheat are always inferior to those of us superior males and females who took the vows.

Would you sneak around to steal crumbs from the table of a married couple? I didn't think so. No need to post photos. We can all imagine what he looks/acts like.

He's a nobody. Treat him accordingly.