Should mb28 still go to FT with her husband if he agrees to counseling before he shows up at her door and talks about re-commitmenting to the marriage? Just confused because if he goes with her to FT before HE comes to his own conclusion to re-commit could that been seen as mb28 pursuing.
My question is triggered by the statement: He has to want it BAD enough that he WILL DO the WORK... him just casually meandering about wanting to take you out with him and the kids is NOT ANYWHERE near what he should be doing yet... so the answer is the same as always.
If he is counseling with mb28 and he is still on the fence about what to do and then while in counseling he makes a decision to commit to his marriage, should mb28 still turn him down at first?
I apologize if I am confusing things for mb28 but I have been following her stitch and the advice she is given.
Me: 28 H: 32 1st marriage 4 both 1 1/2 year married 2gether for 9 1S: 6months 1stepson: 2yo
