I honestly wouldn't waste my time or effort even thinking about how to possibly reconcile/piece while he continues to live with OW for a few months and doesn't see the problem with that. If that is what he is suggesting, it is incredibly disrespectful to you. That's not piecing. That's him wondering if he's going to stay with OW (or if she wants to stay with him) when the lease is up so he wants to keep you on the back burner by throwing you some hope.
Me38,H:38,S:7 Married:6/99 Bomb:7/04 Sep.:5/05 D Filed:3/08;Final 1/10 Piecing:11/09 H moved back:09/10 Current thread: http://tiny.cc/htcty