Well in your initial post you talk about faking faking faking. If you fully understood the principles you would know that most people on this board don't think you should FAKE anything. You should make changes to yourself, genuine changes, because it's good for you whether or not you save your marriage or get divorced. And they stress that it has to be for YOU and it has to be genuine and permanent. The people who DB'ing doesn't work for are the ones who actually are not getting a life and faking everything. You talk about your husband faking it. It's because he was the one with the infidelity. They lie and fake EVERYTHING.
Just sayin'
Me 42/ W 40 /S 16 Married 15 Bomb dropped 11/18/2009 Nuke dropped 12/7/2009 EA/likely PA confirmed and busted 2/28/2010 Still separated in the same house and cant wait for this to end 5/8/2012
