Too Late For Us?

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So here I am, sitting in a hotel room very far from home. Before I left, w was pressuring me to sign the divorce papers. I told her it would need to wait until I returned. She invited me over for breakfast before I left. All was pleasant, I was very upbeat. She said something like: "judging by your mood, I guess you didn't signed the papers yet." Things got sour after this comment so that is when I left.

Sounds to me like she is angry b/c you aren't doing what she wants, on her timeline.

Last night, I sent what you might call a "Dear Jane" letter via e-mail. The letter theme of the letter was "I cannot hold you here if you do not want to be with me. You are free to go." This is want she has been asking for right? She wanted me to stop resisting the divorce.

That doesn't sound like you are letting go. The implication sounds like "but if you change your mind, I'll be here waiting". You don't need to tell her she is free to go, she knows this, and has gone.

She ignored my txt messages this morning and it took a couple of tries to get her to answer my calls. I talked to her just few minutes ago. She is pissed off about the letter. Hmmm?

I don't understand why are you making so much effort to contact? You are pursuing, looking for a response. It would have probably been more effective for you to do nothing, and simply waited for her to contact you.

I have to re-read your thread. I'm not clear if you want to stay M or go forward w/D.