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[awest1217]

K- I definitely know about the not letting him come home with her still attached. He has to move out of his current residence because it was sold, and I told him he either comes home and ditches her, or he still is her "friend", doesn't come home, and I file for divorce. As I have said before, this has been years of many different OW and if he chooses to not want to try to make this work, there isn't much more I can do at this point. I really think he wants to live in a fantasy world where him and OW are happily together when in reality she is married and so is he and he has a S. It will be interesting the weekends he is supposed to see S, and OW wants to go out of town, but H can't because in Indiana S won't spend the night until he is 3, so they would have to stay in town. Then real life will set in, but who knows, maybe he will come to his senses and let her go, but at this point I doubt it. We are just his "family" so when he talks to people they have a good perception of him. I am though making sure H doesn't come home and still be with OW. I have lived that life for most of my marriage and I am not going back there (not at all what H was planning on when he left...me getting stronger)

5 more days!