The adventure chronicles

[AFWAW]

Well, this is not going as well as I thought it would. Real quick. It's going on 3 weeks now and my house is upside down. We've gotten rid of a lot of stuff and started painting as I told the wife I wanted to sell the house. She finally conceded to that.

She keeps bringing up money. Money, money, money, money. I finally told her it looked suspicious as to what her intentions were by coming home. I told her in no uncertain terms that we would not have our money together for a long time if ever and that I didn't appreciate that she kept bringing it up. I told her that she worked and I worked and that she could contribute to half of everything as would I. That's it, nothing more to talk about.

Another thing, my daughter. My wife and my daughter argue constantly. My wife is trying to control my daughter and my duaghter it appears is no longer afraid of my wife's ranting and raving. It's getting old. I've only stepped in once and told my wife that I would handle it. She started to argue with me but I didn't get excited just told her I would handle it. She backed off which leads me to me next thought.

I don't argue anymore with her--at all. I don't feel like it's worth my time and most of the things she wants to argue about are pointless.

Next, I found out the other day that I got promoted! Good stuff!!! This means I have to move somewhere else. The wife's first two questions after she said congrats were, what are you going to do with your raise and do you intend to take me with you? Furthermore, at my promotion party(which I invited her too)she looked very uncomfortable. When we got home she said that she didn't like being there and was I ashamed of her being there? I said, I invited you remember? She said, well, you didn't even say I looked pretty of anything. I said, are you kidding? Does everything have to be about you?

Which leaves me to my last thought. Everytime I look at my wife I either get angry or I get sad. I think I made a mistake by letting her come home. I deserve to be happy as does she. I just don't know how to proceed. Any thoughts?