In quick news, on the way home I get a mistaken text from H that says "going to W's to play with S, then pizza. see you soon baby girl. i loooooove u". It was meant for OW. I forwarded it back to H and said oops wrong person.
OK, that was... horrible. I dont think you should consider allowing him coming back under these conditions. You know I am ALL for focusing on your goal and giving love a chance but this just aint right. If he loves her or thinks he does, he wont be serious with reconciling. It will be nerve wrecking and frustrating for you and it will actually get more distnace between you. I was there for a year without knowing I was. It sucked big time. Time to set some boundaries. Dont let him call the shots. YOU do it for you life. K
