Awoken, I'm really glad that you told your STBXW how her illness is affecting you and the children. It was the right thing to do, as a man and as a father.

And how crushing her response was. The denial. I can only hope that some of what you said sank in and that she will deal with her problems eventually, so that your interactions with her can be more peaceful.

It sounds like you were superGALdad this weekend and I am *very* impressed smile . Those parenting victories are so important to recognize and celebrate.

(((Awoken)))

Last edited by flowmom; 03/07/10 06:55 PM.

me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
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