flowmom, it hasn't felt like pursuing because my H has never felt pursued by me. He has felt overlooked and ignored, and he has felt alone.
It really sounds like you're on the right track. I hope you're keeping a solution journal and tracking the micro-responses to your actions. Why don't you set some DB goals in your thread here?
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
