Amazing stuff N8, youre right its not all about pursuing but applying the right 180's in right situation.. My H had got sick and tired of clinging idendantless Mrs Rabbit.. really was no need for it but it had just happened over time. We have a long way to go but if its any help 180's Ive done that have helped once we got going were!

Getting off my butt to go talk to him and give him a kiss in the kitchen if he was cooking.

Cuddle time is at 9pm every night just about

Cuddle time in the morning means me waking up for a bit earlier to have a cuddle before getting going

Letting things go that I would have wanted to control, let him learn by his own mistakes rather than me telling him it wont work even if I know that!

Occasional cards to thanks for things and also noticing things and saying thankyou!

Never take for granted he knows some thing communicate!

I'd say youve got things moving if you take it steady the next few weeks are going to be interesting for you both!


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W 47
H 47
M 24
T 30

Once lost but now found and happily married again!