Hi Twink,
Dr. Bruce Fisher wrote the book Rebuilding. So search for Fisher divorce recovery seminars or rebilding, will do it. Seems like there are several seminars going on at one time, led by various people. I've heard good things about it from my therapist and others.

Have a wonderful day!

M44 H46 T21 Married 16y
D14 D12
Bomb 12/08(EA), (PA/Separation)1/09 to 5/09
Home/MC 5/09 to 12/09
Leaves 12/09 Files for Divorce
Divorce final 6/30/10.