ILYBNILWY - Thoughts From This Walk Away Spouse

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Thanks dburt:

I think some of the male victims of cheating spouses are still displacing their anger toward various new people (often females) who show up here having heard this line. It's almost like some of them get a disturbing thrill out of rubbing the possibility in.

I have said before I wished at the time she was having an affair, because it would make more sense to me if she had been.

Interesting.

I think this is the case for me. My wife has been frantic to find out who the other woman was/is. In her own case, it has nothing to do with anyone else. I don't love her any longer because she's a common a**hole. It's easier for her to invent an imaginary affair than it is to look in the mirror and accept some responsibility for her own lousy behavior.

I'd be very interested in knowing how you turned things around. You're a good man to do so much work, in any case.