ILYBNILWY - Thoughts From This Walk Away Spouse

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Dear WhatNow:

I suspect you are hurt, angry and frustrated by your wife's behavior?

Actually, I like my own wife best when she's out of the house for long periods of time. I am angry and frustrated by the way she treats our kids; but other than that I've lost all feelings for her.

Note that I am 'not in love' with my wife, though I do love her in a very general sense, as a fellow human being. Yet, I'm not confused about anything. In fact, I've never felt so sure, peaceful and strong as I have in the last couple of weeks.

Does that mean I'm automatically attaching myself to someone else? Nope! It sure doesn't.