I really had not thought about a trial seperation. Mostly b/c she has never suggested it. I am not sure how I feel about that. Me waiting around on her, while she lives in MY house with our kids? Not sure I like that.
You're right, of course, about this. Also: 1) One never leaves the marital home, bed, etc. 2) Statistics on Trial Separations are:
13% Reconcile 87% Do not
Gardener, thanks.
Wholeagain, I am definitely open to all ideas, so thanks.
I just don't see a trial seperation getting my sitch where I would like to see it. So, what I have left is me and the kids. Focus on those aspects, keep working on myself, and see where this all leads.
The thing that bothers me is trying to understand someone who would let her pride keep her from her highest duty - keeping the family together for us and for the kids (and, yes, I see that as MY highest duty as well).
