Mornin' gima,
Originally Posted By: givingitmyall
I really had not thought about a trial seperation. Mostly b/c she has never suggested it. I am not sure how I feel about that. Me waiting around on her, while she lives in MY house with our kids? Not sure I like that.
You're right, of course, about this. Also:
1) One never leaves the marital home, bed, etc.
2) Statistics on Trial Separations are:

13% Reconcile
87% Do not

Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac