Stuck because I don't know for sure

[sleeplessinspoke]

I am sorry to hear about the fact that she wouldn't work on it. We were asked the same question in therapy in week one. Is there an affair? I agreed that one of the reasons we were there is the SSM had gotten so bad that I suspected and she calmly re-stated that's ridiculous....

I'll cover snooping in a later post. It's not much, as I feel so much of it goes on from work or during work hours. I feel as long as I have no proof, I should give her the benefit of the doubt, I just don't know if I'll feel better or worse knowing I had an incling and I didn't act stronger if I get the bomb that almost always follows in these stories.....assuming I am in one