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[courageous wife]

Hi again HB! I was reading what you wrote to Hopeforchange about almost adult kids and the Mlcer having to work on their R's themselves. My H has a son from his first marraige that has tried calling him several times and H has only returned one phone call. I had spoken with a DB coach and she thought maybe H was not feeling wanted or needed so I encouraged SS to keep calling H and trying to include him in their lives. I guess my question is that I know that "I" need to step back and detach but what about the adult children of a MLCer? My SS is not very impressed with what his Dad is doing but would still like to have a R with him.