Remember, as each person is different, every MLC/Transition is different..what works for one may not work for another. Most of the time it is trial and error for ALL involved.
HB,
Although I find many of your posts to be helpful to many of the newcomers, could you also please reiterate the fact that your information and knowledge is based on first hand experience and that each person here has to go through their own journey and that it WILL be different for each person.
You can not guarantee that anyone's spouse will come out of their MLC by following your simple steps to success.
NOBODY KNOWS WHAT THE MLC'ER THINKS OR WHAT THE OW THINKS.
We can only assume things, and usually most of the things in our head are worse then the reality of the situation.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
