My husband is addicted to an emotional affair

[awest1217]

Since he wants to talk about the relationship, see if you can go see a counselor and let him know you would like to talk about things there with him. This way you have a mediator and can make sure you just aren't yelling at each other, but really talking to each other. Make it sound like this is to help you so you can understand him better and not because he needs to go. It is a little sneaky, but talking to him about the R even though he is asking to, without strategies or someone there, is going to be a spinning wheel. He doesn't know what he wants and it will only get worse before it gets better.

Also don't talk to him about a condo. Do everything you can to stay in the house. He left you, not you leaving him so don't move unless you absolutely can't afford the house and H won't help. Stay your ground.