The Gandhi Approach -- 5 Whistles!

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A question... what do you do when you know the PA has physically ended and will most definately remain that way (due to massive physical separation between the affair couple) but it's hard to say if the emotional side of the affair has ended or is sufficiently 'dead' since there are signs my spouse still harbours strong feelings for the other person, or at least is still very much in love with the idea of being 'in love'? My WAH and I have been seperated 2.5 months since bombshell (ILYBNILWY and says there is no hope, it's over), but wants to remain best friends and wants to have some kind of relationship when our baby is born in 2 months time.

Thanks for any advice on a good way of expressing the following without saying I am happy to be seperated and eventually divorced: "While you remain unclear to me if you are building a life with someone else - EA or PA - it's difficult to me to accept the idea of trying to remain friends for the sake of co-parenting which is what you want. I think friendship is built on trust & you are not being transparent with me today about the OW".

Would appreciate any advice....