Wow, you've had a busy weekend too. That mistaken text is pretty surprising. I just don't get why he could do something like that and him not understand why they can't "just be friends". Do you honestly think he is that misguided right now that he actually believes it or do you think he knows that's a lie but is hoping you'll believe it?
You know it's totally unfair to you, but sometimes it just really takes a person to get down to the wire and about to lose everything to knock some sense into them. Just continue to stand your ground b/c you are absolutely in the right and give him that last chance before the end. Luckily, I can see how strong you are in this and will be able to follow thru with the "her or me" ultimatum. He had a chance to "wean" off her, but now it's time for cold turkey! No excuses!
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