The tunnel of darkness

[kjensen]

Hi Golfgirl,
I'm nearby in Louisville, moved from Lafayette in August. Have lived in Boulder county since 1988.
I actually plan to take the Rebuilding seminar-think the next one starts at the end of this month.

Just have a hard time hearing H say that he thought we agreed to divorce, that he didn't see me trying to save our marriage...Like he is a different person than the one I was interacting with, going to marriage counseling with last year. How could he forget that I was stuned when he announced he wanted a divorce? How could he forget that he already had retained a lawyer when he asked for the divorce so I "wouldn't be able to talk him out of it.."?

That stuff just blows my mind.