Thank You, I've only been doing what seems to be working for since Monday and it has been super hard. One of the biggest things I've noticed has made a huge difference is me not asking him where and with who he is with. It's driving me nuts not knowing, but I at the same time I feel better not worring about him and his drama. And being nice to him, not in a doormat way, when he is around has helped too.

He has invited me to do something with him and the kids tomorrow. Do I accept?


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10