What are my options? Good question Grace.

Stop working with him in the business and find a job. Consequences:
1) The Business would likely go under (after 20 years)
2) I would have to discharge 1/2 of a very large business debt
3) I wouldn't get any support from WH if has has no income
4) I will not make enough money to support current lifestyle
5) I would have to sell the house (WH said that I can have it)

It may come to that, I realize that. What I will do is to upgrade my education now just in case the worst happens. I want to be ready.

I guess the above would answer your question about what I would do if he was gone for good smile


Last edited by Mila; 03/07/10 04:56 AM.

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M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO