It appears that either you haven't read the article I penned, or you don't understand it. Let me clarify.
It seems that this information was accurate in your situation.
The opposite is true. If I were having an affair, I'd know it and admit it here openly (I'm anonymous, after all). I'm not. I use the line for entirely different reasons.
Crushed, here's a newsflash, ILYBINILWY will not always mean 100% of the time that your spouse is cheating on you. But isn't 70,80 or 90% good enough when making a generalization like this?
Impressive stats, I don't suppose you have a peer-reviewed journal article to back them up? Don't worry, I won't wait around.
The fact is that you and others do newbies a grave disservice by propagating this idiocy. People show up here who are hurting and vulnerable, and these same people are prone to grab any advice that any know-nothing might give, including "s/he's sleeping with someone else". In this particular case, this is the very worst assumption that can be made, since baseless accusations are not part of divorce busting.
Remember kids, this is the real world, where we like to see evidence before assuming that something is verifiable.
Peace, CV_95
What evidence are you looking for? We can't go into your respective situation and verify this, unfortunately that is your responsibility if you even choose to assume that task - but I'll repeat, you verified that in your own situation, your wife said these magic words to you and she was having an affair, I guess that's purely coincidental.
