Thanks newma- BTW you look great and thanks for accepting me on FB.
W is a horse trainer- sorry I wasn't more specific...bad news is the horse crowd is VERY snooty, and also very self-centered...
As for the dogs, W has been out of the house for a month now...once I found out about OM2, I told W I would not care for her 2 dogs while she was having an A. Came home the other day and the dogs were here...I reminded her to respect my boundary and no reply.
If I care for them she has amble time to knock boots w/ OM2.
Truth is I love them dearly, I will likely make an issue of at least one of them if the D proceeds.
