1. I mentioned this before, do NOT LISTEN to her negative comments... she is TRYING to SCARE you OFF... you are consuming what she is telling you and working your self into a PANIC... it is NOT helping you
2. Loving actions is NOT Last Resort Technique, and I am NOT reccomending LRT anyhow. I am recommending an affair busting strategy not covered in MWD's texts.
3. While there is an affair going on, and for aat least a month widthrawal period after its REALLY OVER I do NOT reccomend you pursue your wire at ALL.
Loving actions can be done without pursuing... its done subtely with HER VOLNTEERING to accept or refuse.
Example :
a. You INVITING her to a movie b. You renting a movie and HER CASUALLY sitting to watch it in the chair next to you
c. You making dinner and preparing a plate for her d. You making dinner and ASKING HER if she would like to sit with you for dinner
e. You buying some flowers to decorate the living room is OK f. You buying some flowers with a love card and HANDING them to her
a, d, and f is PURSUIT, do NOT do this b, c, and e is OK, its leaving HER the CHOICE to warm up to you or not...
Do things like b, c, and e...
1. This will demonstrate change for the better on your part 2. This will leave her feeling FREE, not under control 3. This will keep YOU from feeling direct Rejection like you are experiencing now...
No pursuit = No rejection
STOP the PURSUIT, it is NOT LRT, and it is NOT helping you
You need to change who YOU ARE... PURSUING her is NOT you changing yourself for the better, its YOU trying to control her
SHE needs to see an ADULT, NOT a love struck teenager..
YOU can be an ADULT without requiring her help at all
My CONCERN is the affair, the tactics above will have only MINIMAL effect with this creep slipping her his BS in secret, DO EVERYTHING YOU CAN to put a STOP to that creep
