Something became vary obvious during our conversation. I have grown in so many areas. One of the big ones is financially. I've been working like a mad man to get myself out of dept, fix my credit and to be responsible for myself. I've made huge progress in this area.
What is also obvious is she has done nothing to improve herself. She is putting all her eggs on being D as the solution to her unhappiness. She is still using me as an excuse for not moving forward in constructive ways.
Good job in not taking the bait. I think my W is starting to feel the consequences of her decisions financially.
Months ago I thought that would be the key to bringing the family back together.
Now, I wouldn't go back because of money.
What specifically have you done to improve the financial picture. I'm always looking for tips.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6
