Today walked with a couple of friends for about 12 miles or so.
Then met my mom and SIL for lunch. They wanted to talk to me without any kids or distractions. They are concerned that I have not "moved on" as in with another woman. I told them that I am very happy with life right now and taking care of my kids.
In addition, I have not given up on my marriage, well my mom is convinced that you NEED to have someone (a partner) in order to be truly happy. I tried to explain that is not true, that happiness comes from within but she was not buying it. Anyway, I know they are very concerned and worry that I will be alone but again I tried to tell them that I will be fine no matter what happens as the Lord will take care of me. However, we did have a good lunch as we did not only talk about my M and me
I was glad we did have time to talk and voice all our concerns. My SIL was a LBS from her first H and she thinks I'm actually doing very well in my sitch.
So, tonight S14 and I will go with my parents to help out at a homeless shelter then go to babysit my niece