I have kept so much bottled up for so long (even a miscarriage that I never told anyone about). My husband expected something from me that I am not even sure he knew what it was nor did I. We married for love and happiness because we utterly enjoyed spending time with each other and supported each other in everything we did.
How can someone who says they love you and care for you say that you are also the reason for their unhappiness and that it is in the best interest of both of us to separate and divorce. This is H’s belief. I don’t know for sure why he feels so much unhappiness. Says he beginning not to feel good when he was around me…I annoy him, ask too many questions, etc.
There was a time when we both felt good being around each other and truly enjoyed each others company. I feel that H’s need for a divorce is the easy way out, doesn’t involve commitment, love, support, or care. It was self and controlling. I am sorry for everything you believed you have suffered in this relationship, but I hope that at some point, you will note the equally great times we had as a couple before and after we married.
OLD THREAD-http://tinyurl.com/y98nuty Me 44 H 51 T 15 yrs M 9+ yrs No Kids "You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment unless you trust enough."
