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Do you, or did you see any rebelion bacause of what's happening in the family?


That would be an understatement. Could it have happened regardless of the sitch between H and I ...absolutely. I've never said it was his fault.

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D16 won't talk to me much about how she feels,


My D17 wouldn't say shite if she had a mouthful. I have one that can really act out and the toher is a quiet one. Both tough, you just learn different skills to (hopefully) help tham each out.

My D's relationship with their Dad vacillates. They will talk with him some, mostly superficial stuff. I am hopeful that their ability to just "hang" with him will help all of them develop something of substance. I just try to keep my nose out of it.