Thanks OldPilot, I don't know myself how the business is going to survive this and you guessed right WH is an integral part of it.
And I agree that he can't have it all - my friendship, business and his affair.
But I truly feel trapped in the business at the moment, if I walk out on it, there are some personal guarantees in place so I would be stuck with 1/2 of the business debt. I also don't think that I can replace the income by getting a job. Plus I was hoping that by staying friends and continuing the business I can DB.
Originally Posted By: OldPilot
The confusion certainly indicates that he is MLC. The NC is to protect you and I am not sure of your feelings about all of this? You seem to treat him and his affair as OK?
No I don't think the affair is OK and he certainly knows how I feel about it. I have no choice but to accept that it exists. I treat WH as a friend and show him concern and support (accept when it's about OW)
I'm trying to detach from his **** as much as I can but sure it's hard because of business. I guess I just have to be even stronger and find ways to show thim that he can't have it all.
Any ideas are welcome
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