I suspect she is depressed. And I am pretty sure I'm right. Until she addresses the reasons for her unhappiness, getting rid of me won't change her unhappiness.
She asked for a D from the day of the bomb and hasn't wavered.
I don't want to be D'd. I don't want my family ripped apart. But, I can't make her stay.
I have been DB'ing since shortly after the bomb. She has done nothing to work on the M. I don't see a trial sep changing that.
I will have a happy life no matter what happens. I have a preference of what I would like to happen but no control over forcing that result. She needs to lose me to understand what she had. Not sure she will ever figure that out or, if she does, if she will do it in time. Not waiting for her. I have a life to live, with or without her.
