Also, I failed to mention the text messages are something I would consider a routine, she always did that so its not sarcastic.

I also wanted to know if the OM telling my wife "You husband loves you, work it out your problems, give him a chance" will that push my W further from me? due to underlying relationship issues or do you think she will just attach on to another person if not him?

M: 27, W: 25
Together since: 01/31/00
M: 10/4/09 (8 Months)
ILBNILWY: 01/24/10
EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted).
Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10
Retrouvaille: 09/10/10