What's not to understand on the finances. She's being advised to go after every dime. I'm sure she feels she's doing it for her and D9.

You're looking out for you financial interests.

Look, when I got the divorce petition I called W and we had a 10 minute argument.

I felt awful about it because it made me feel weak.

I resolved to discuss nothing about the D with W. That's to be handled through the attorneys.

Make that pledge to yourself. Talk nothing about the D with your stbx. That's waht the lawyers are for.

Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11
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