Better Days

[ClingingToHope]

In my case, W was never really involved in the finances. She would spend, spend, spend and I'd have to figure out ways to keep us above water.

When we had our final blowup and she told me to leave I violated DB rules by leaving because I thought she would not be able to handle the house.

It's big. Hard to maintain. It has a double yard with hills making it difficult to mow. It has a number of things in need of repair or improving.

I suspected W hadn't really thought this out. She just figured everything would be fine. She'd have to make some cutbacks, but she must make enough money to support herself.

Well, now it's a few months later and she continues to bounce checks, turn the girls down for things, complain about money.

So the D process is going to be painful. She's going to go after every dime.

My hope is that a judge won't feel it's fair after every two weeks her amount of money is 225 percent higher than mine.

Of course, that's the finance part. Socially, I have no idea if she misses me at all. When I see her face, I see nothing there but cold indifference.