Start of the end..

[antlers]

Which way do you think will leave you in a stronger position after an interaction like this?

a. Beat yourself up for backsliding.

b. Forgive yourself for backsliding, learn from it, and resolve to not do it again.


Let it go man. You can't control her thoughts, feelings, or actions...so why bother? You can control all of these things for yourself though...so do it. Once you get to where it doesn't matter what she thinks, feels, or does...you'll be in a place where you look good on the inside to yourself! I know you hurt. That's part of this crap. No way around it...only through it! Get outside and go do some physical exertion.