I was seeing an IC, but stopped about 2 weeks ago. It was the C that me and my H went to when we first split up. My H didn't like her at all. And the last couple times I seen her, she really seemed to lean towards there is no hope for us because my H is having an A, and she said that M usually never recover from that. So I decided not to go back to her.

As soon as I can get into a good FT, that is what I'm going to do. I need someone who is pro-M. And I will use Allens advice to find me one.

My H is going back to the psycologist that he seen last week. He said he really likes her. I told him that I got the impression that she was leaning towards D. He said NO, that she told him that D is a choice. And that most of the session was about his issues, not our M. He did say last night, that he agrees we will need FT if and when he decides he wants to work it out.


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10