and that he himself said that his cousin's marriage could have worked and they shouldn't have divorced. He denies ever saying this. So weird how he is in a fog and remembers what he wants.
Yeah, isn't it? Unfortunately, it's also VERY, VERY common. Try to let it go and just realize it is the fog.
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Long story short, he said he is coming over tomorrow to mow the lawn....I am really thinking of not being here
DON'T BE THERE. Go anywhere - coffee shop, bookstore, library, a movie - ANYTHING. Get mysterious and do something YOU enjoy. Whatever he thinks, so be it. It doesn't matter.
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I just want my best friend back and to spend time together without him being so moody, distant, frustrated and foggy. I am convinced that he is suffering from depression and has been for some time.
Yep, present in my sitch too. And, unfortuantely, until they are ready for help, there is nothing ew can do to change that.
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I am now contemplating talking with his Mother. I know she doesn't want us to be divorced and that she thinks he is depressed. I want him to get couseling/treatment but he is SUPER stubborn about admitting something is wrong. I feel like his roller coaster is coming down to a low soon though and that might be my chance to talk with him and actually possibly get through. I'm not sure though. Just tossing ideas around in my head with all my free time here.
I don't think I would talk to him mom. He isn't going to get help until he's ready. Not b/c his mom or anyone else talked him into it. Only when HE is ready.
