Oh, filing the papers will only put it in the system. Still, if there really are no hours then there is no money and nothing for the state to take. I still won't know until I get surprise money in my account. I just won't have to deal with him to get it.

Help things between us? Frankly, I'm done being Ms. Nice Guy. I have been nothing but accommodating and kind to him through all of this nonsense. Why? I have no freakin' clue! The type of person I am can't stand to know that someone is upset with me, even if that person happens to be the man that destroyed my life and all hope for the future. I still have been the sympathetic, kind, compassionate person I am with friends in need. That is only doing further damage to myself and he could really care less. When will I get it through my skull that there is ZERO reason for me to deal with him about anything?

Now, that's when. NOW!


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!