Im glad that you've taken some time to calm down and not act out of emotion. That is def key in all sitches.

As for knowing the issues of the M, I'm sure you have a pretty good idea...the point is that you truly want and deserve something better now.

Keep w/ the PMA and doing what needs to be done around the house.

Allen wrote in another sitch the effercts of lovingly detching and gave a timeframe of 6 months to a year to get WAW to have more balanced feelings. ANY backslide or moment of emotion positive or negative can potentially derail your progress...

Hang in there and thanks for checking in on my sitch and for the good wishes


DARK