Matilda and DB Friends, My W had some type of outpatient surgery last week at a gynecologist's office. She hasn't been the same since--fatigue and cramping, though slowly getting better. She's been having trouble finding the energy to go out dancing, which is distressing to her. Last night she decided to stay in. She asked me to give her a massage to loosen up tight muscles. We spent the night together chatting about different things--nothing heavy. She continues to assert how difficult I was to live with until the past several years.
She went to her first chiropractic visit this week at my chiropractor and had an hour long massage. She is signed up for another one next week. She said that she went in there stressed out and left relaxed. The receptionist insisted that I get one too, and wouldn't accept my excuses, so I'm signed up at my next visit in three weeks.
My W indicated to me that she wanted to go the Spring Ball this month. This is sponsored by the local ballroom chapter. I was surprised as she only accompanies me to an occasional ballroom class. I'll have to put on my partner hat, and make her my priority for the evening.
Earlier in the week, she called one of her dance friends to see if he would pick her up to carpool to a venue in a difficult neighborhood. He had already arrived, but offered to drive her home. I told her that I would drive her there (15 minute commute), so she wouldn't have to deal with walking in a difficult neighborhood. She was grateful.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
